(Daniel took this picture tonight when we got home from dinner. This is a warning you’re in for some vanity and self-indulgence. )
When you see me you can’t miss it. I have a LOT of hair. Way more than most women my age. Way more than most women any age.
It’s long because a couple years ago I decided to grow it out for Locks of Love. Just because I could.
And also because I know how it feels not to have any hair. I feel lucky to have it–to donate to someone else.
I need around 10 inches to give away. My daughter gave hers recently without batting an eye.
For me, it’s not IF, but WHEN. And lately, I felt ready to make the cut. To make a change. To comb out the tangles in less than a half hour. To stop looking like an aging hippie.
The thing is, while I’ve been growing my long hair, my long hair is growing on me. And on the men in my life.
My father was the first man who loved my long hair. Probably that’s why I’m a pushover when other men love it, too. And this week, both Daniel and V told me they think I should leave it long…a little longer.
So now I can’t decide:
Locks of Love—-or Love of Locks?
Mark Geduldig-Yatrofsky says
The picture takes me back to when we were in high school. I am still fond of long hair–on women. (My “baby” brother’s hair is longer than yours.) The lucky part for you, though, is that a great face gives you a lot of latitude in how you wear your hair. (The WTVJ archival pics are strong evidence you’ll still turn heads with shorter strands.) My wife is a member of that club, too, but I’m not and expect I never will be!
Stephanie says
I’m starting to think that long hair is an “age” thing…
I too have let my hair grow and at 61 years of age I’m back wearing a long ponytail……
Is it our last attempt to look young??
It’s certainly easy to manage…..
Everyone seems to like it….
keep it long…..
Join the pony tail boomers….
By Jane says
If either of them wants to take daily responsibility for the care and feeding of your hair, then they get a vote.
Susan Strisik says
Not that you’re asking for my 2 cents – but – I think it would make you feel really good knowing your effort over the past years will make a difference in someones life. Stick with your goal and CUT AWAY:) Just think of all the extra time you’ll have on your hands:)
Darryle Pollack says
In my TV days I was chained to a blow dryer, like we all were. Since I had chemo, in all honesty I’ve had hair every possible length—and I don’t waste any time—or energy—dealing with it.
I like Stephanie’s attitude–even after I cut it off, I might just grow it back.
julia freifeld says
you look beautiful…just as I remember you 20ish years ago!!! What’s your secret?! 🙂
xo, Julia
Stacy says
LOCKS of LOVE. Do a good deed. It’s hair. You can grow more. Take the minimum amount off and you’ll still have some nice shoulder length to work with.
p.s. I have an almost-pixie cut. Am starting to crave long hair again but the maintenance — OY! and the growing out?!!
Ann M. Thane says
Your beautiful heart means more than the length of your hair. Your generosity is gorgeous. Hold to your conviction.
You inspire us all in so many ways. Cheers, A.
Darryle Pollack says
Stacy–You’re right. And if I know anything about hair, I certainly know it grows back.
Ann–I am incredibly touched. Not sure your words are entirely deserved but cannot tell you how much I appreciate hearing them– and thinking that they make a difference someplace out there. Thank you for writing.